A part of you knows this too. That’s why you arrived here. It’s the only way to get what you want out of life, and set your children up to reach the highest vision of success in their own life. Often, parents come to me because they want to help their children. They want to help them be stronger, braver, more confident, in a world that can feel hard, cold and chaotic at times. My clients want to raise resilient children who can withstand the storms, and weather patterns of our unpredictable, and ever changing world. Unfortunately, they don’t always feel like they have the maps or the tools to help them get there. Our children don’t come with a manual, or a “how to” book, and you might be wondering just how it came to be that your child knows exactly how to push all your buttons. You want the answers, approaches, tools, and especially the shortcuts to help your children, so that they can fastrack their way to success, and not fall victim to the same roadblocks that may have gotten you sidetracked from living your life on purpose.What if I told you that your life’s purpose and your role as a parent are deeply related?
In fact, I believe you are meant to parent purposefully, and consciously.
Ultimately…all my clients want their children to be happy and successful, now and in the future!
“If there is anything that we wish to change in the child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be changed in ourselves.” Carl Jung
What if deep inside, you held the exact keys that are going to unlock the doors to your child’s success and yours? These may be the very opportunities that you missed out on in your life, and the very doors that you felt were closed to you. Here’s how all of this works! What exactly does this mean? If you choose to have children, your children will mirror to you perfectly, the missed lessons and opportunities from your younger life, that you came here to learn in this lifetime. Think of your particular parenting challenges as alarms that you set to go off at a particular time in your life’s journey, to help remind you of what you came here to do.What if I told you that this very shortcut to your child’s success and happiness you are seeking, starts with you?
I believe our children are perfect mirrors of us.
(Once you email me, we’ll hop on the phone for a complimentary 20 minute clarity session.)
Are you feeling….
Or, you might be here because you are a new parent, and you’ve heard all the horror stories…
And you want support to start this phase of your life fully prepared emotionally, mentally and spiritually to guide your child in the best way you can.
“Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on the environment, and especially on their children than the unlived life of a parent.”
Carl Jung
I am here to help you create a win/win experience as a parent, and in your own life. (When you email me, we’ll hope on the phone for a 20 minuet complimentary clarity session) We will start our work with a deep dive into your own life’s purpose, so that you can see the larger vision for your life, understand the role your child/children play within that vision, and where you are currently in your life. Through this process, you will get specific insights into the experiences you came to this life to have, the major life themes that you have been exploring, the gifts you came here to develop as well as the roadblocks and blind spots that may be affecting your life. This is the exact insight that we will need to entirely transform your parenting experience!I believe that you have a deep desire to parent on purpose.
This is why I created Parenting On Purpose!
Over the course of 6 months, you and I will work one-on-one to address the specific areas where you need the most support.
As a result of our work, you will…
Both you, your child/children, and your entire family can be profoundly transformed by this experience. I know this because I have done this myself. About 8 years ago, when I was at the height of my corporate career and my life seemed all sparkly perfect on the outside, I walked into the hallway outside my bedroom one day and came face to face with something that shocked me, and made me see the reality that I was creating in my life back then… I overheard my 3 year old daughter talk to her dolls in the same tone and voice that I spoke to her. Except, I’d never heard it mirrored back to me in quite the same way! I had no idea just how harsh my voice sounded, and how little patience was beneath my well intentioned, yet completely unskillful way of communicating. What I heard and saw, hurt me deeply. I had always told myself, that I would never make the kind of mistakes that my own parents had made. I knew they did the best they could, with what they knew at the time, and I was determined to do some things differently with my children. Yet here I was, making the same mistakes and unconsciously re-creating the very situations that had caused me to feel hurt, sad and misunderstood as a child. This was also the time that my own body was starting to show signs of illness that I could no longer brush away as mere tiredness. I’d like to say, I turned my life around overnight. But that would not be the truth! That situation with my daughter woke me up and burst the parenting bubble I had been living in! This was just the tip of the iceberg. It took a few more wake up calls, and me having to get debilitatingly ill, and having to leave my corporate career, to eventually get me to do the real work of transforming my entire life, from the inside out. I want to help you become resilient so you can tune in, and notice the weather patterns in your family and know just how to maneuver the storms. I want you to notice the potholes even while you may fall in some. I want to empower you, so that if and when you fall in those pot holes, and makes some mistakes, that you not fall into shame and hide your humanness. Instead, I want to teach you to use these opportunities to call your children over, and show them that you fell, and allow them to be a witness to you getting out. So they can do the same. So that through your courage, they can also be brave, to let you know when they fall. And maybe even ask you for help. Because they have seen you be humble and brave.You can do this!
True story…
I am still by no means a perfect parent.
In fact, it is not my aspiration to be one.
Nor is it my wish for you!
I believe that the “juice & the magic” in parenting, are in the actual challenges that come up in your very real life.
Because thats really what life is all about. Teaching and learning from each other.
Are you ready to parent on purpose?