TRUE STORY…
About 11 years ago, when I was at the height of my corporate career and my life seemed all sparkly perfect on the outside, I walked into the hallway outside my bedroom one day and came face to face with something that shocked me.
I overheard my 3 year old daughter talk to her dolls in the same tone and voice that I spoke to her.
Except, I’d never heard it mirrored back to me in quite the same way!
I had no idea just how harsh my voice sounded, and how little patience was beneath my well intentioned, yet completely unskillful way of communicating.
What I heard and saw, hurt me deeply.
I started to reflect on on my own life and childhood and how it felt to be me as a child, a teen and young adult and all the other in between stages.
My own parents were hard working immigrants trying to provide for their family, and they my sisters and I. but growing up, I never felt like they never really got me and how I felt inside.
I had thought up until that point that I was a pretty aware parent. I thought I was doing things differently with my children by sending them to great a great school, buying them things I never had growing up, making sure they were eating healthy, telling them I love them…
Yet here I was, making the same mistakes and unconsciously re-creating some of the very situations that had caused me to feel hurt, sad and misunderstood as a child.
I LAID IN BED MANY NIGHTS WORRYING THAT I WAS MESSING UP AS A PARENT
Maybe you’ve done this too.
I had no idea parenting would be this hard. I constantly felt like I was the “bad mom” every time I tried to parent my children.
From that point on, I started to notice things I’d never seen before with my children.
I started to notice the energy of stress, tension and overwhelm between my husband and I, and the effect it was having on our children. The more I started to learn, the more I started to become aware.
It became very clear to me that I was re-creating at home the exact same energies that I had grown up around. I was doing it in subtle ways that I didn’t really notice until I started paying attention. The physical environment in my family looked very different than the one I grew up in.
However energetically, I was re-creating some of the very emotions of stress, pressure, impatience, annoyance etc. and it was having a real impact on the emotional well being of my family.
I knew something had to change. If not, I could clearly see into the future what the consequences would be for my children, my husband and myself. I could see my young children feeling misunderstood, my husband and I growing apart.
I could see in my children, the same insecurities that my sisters and I had growing up. I could see the way my son and daughter talked to and fought with each other. I could see how little patience my husband and I had and how we snapped constantly at each other.
And all this awareness was of little help when it came to changing my actual behaviour. I felt confused and caught in a cycle where I was repeating aspects of my own childhood and I didn’t know how to break myself and my family free.
And then I got sick.
I had to stop working and I had to face what I had created in my relationship with my husband and with my children.
It was the final blow that really got me to the point where I was desperate and willing to do anything to change.
WHAT MOST PARENTING BOOKS WON’T TELL YOU…
Many of the the best tips, tools and strategies that are out there in parenting books and courses have one problem….
They focus on the symptoms of the problem and not the root cause of where the challenges come from.
To really break free from the patterns of the past and raise happy, resilient children, you need to start with healing you!
YOUR CHILDREN WILL MIRROR WHAT IS BURIED INSIDE OF YOU FROM YOUR OWN CHILDHOOD
Your children will mirror to you everything that is unresolved from your own life!
It’s your second chance to make different choices and learn the lessons you didn’t learn growing up.
Your entire parenting journey has been designed as a personalized life curriculum for both you and your child.
This means that every victory and challenge you are currently experiencing is an opportunity for both you and your child/children to grow and heal the past.
Your children will mirror to you the same qualities, insecurities, emotions and behaviours that you or other members of your family may have experienced growing up.
If you are willing to see these connections from your past to your present, and ready to do what it takes to heal you, the rewards you will experience in your family will be truly magnificent.
You will heal from the inside out. You will free you and you will free your children from having to repeat the patterns from the past.
This is how you raise happy, empowered and resilient children.
And you can do it!
I CREATED THIS MENTORING PROGRAM TO HELP YOU
Schedule a complimentary Discovery Session and learn how you can become the kind of parent that you always wanted.
CHANGE THE OLD RULES
& CREATE LIFE ON YOUR OWN TERMS
In order to create all that you desire consciously and with intention,
you must become aware of all that is currently working against this creation.
These are all the blocks, resistances, limiting beliefs that have been encoded
into your memories, cells and your entire being. And you might have spent your entire life
unaware of these programmes and the impact it’s been having on your life.
If you’ve ever found yourself wondering why bad things keep happening to you,
You keep experiencing “bad luck” or a series of challenges,
and you can’t seem to reach your goals, and everything you want seems just out of reach.
If you have struggled to stop the cycle self-sabotage, overcome self-doubt
and free yourself from other people’s opinions;
Wished you had more energy to do the things you want to do,
could stop doubting yourself and start believing in yourself,
and wake up to the destiny that has been waiting for you.
You’re ready now!
THE “BORROWED BENEFITS” OF GROUP COACHING
Very early on in my coaching career, I discovered the phenomenon often referred to as borrowed benefits in EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique – a powerful mind/body approach that involves meridian tapping). It’s the discovery that simply watching someone else do EFT and participating along with them, can help you reduce the emotional intensity of your own emotions and create powerful inner and outer changes.
It’s an amplified way of receiving the collective power, inspiration and transformation that comes only through the process of co-creating with a group of like minded creators.
It works even when you are thousands of miles away participating online through video conferencing!
If it sounds too good to be true then I invite you put your skepticism on pause temporarily to try it out, so that you can experience the powerful shifts in your own life.
WANT THE DETAILS?
You can participate from anywhere in the world.
We’ll meet twice a month virtually using video conferencing on set dates so you can plan ahead and be prepared.
We’ll work on the real and relevant stuff that gets in the way of your desired life.
You’ll let go of old programming, outdated beliefs, memories, emotions and imprints,
And replace them with empowering beliefs that will place your life on a timeline that serves your highest potential.
All our calls will be recorded and available for you to access whenever you want so you can keep taking empowered action to curate life on your own terms.
This is a monthly subscription. You can can cancel at any time after the first six months.
WHY 6 MONTHS?
It takes time to make lasting changes, for your brain to create new neural pathways, for your body to adjust to living in a different vibration and for you to make changes in your life skillfully and with ease while being supported by me and cheered for by a community of like minded peers.
You’ll also have access to interact with your peers in a private Facebook community. I’ll be in there with you supporting you and answering your questions in between our coaching calls.
The Creator’s Cove is ready for you right now. Come on in!
HAVE MORE QUESTIONS?
Connect with me and we’ll hop on the phone for a complimentary chat where I’ll answer all your questions.
IN THE WORDS OF MY HAPPY CLIENTS…
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“I really think Pramilda is worth every penny! She doesn’t just say pretty things or teach you success formulas, she does the real work that helps you connect the dots of your life that have led to to this moment. I have such a clarity now. My life makes sense, my struggles makes sense. I feel stronger and more confident about myself and about what am I to do in the world.”
“I used to get bogged down, overwhelmed, and basically knocked over by learning technology, and also by my children’s health issues. I’m now set up with a business model that I can repeat and expand. Working with Pramilda is like being guided on a trust walk through the woods at night. Without her I felt lost and lonely. With her guidance, I feel safe, supported, and now know which way I’m going.”
“I discovered why I am pulled to help other women and realize that I have a passion for making others realize everyone is a unique individual. This was a big a ha for me as I have been put into a box most of my life feeling like an outcast or misfit. Pramilda has a gift for bringing out information from people that they never would have put together or thought of communicating otherwise.”
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“I finally understand why I sabotage myself in my life and business. I feel called very strongly to be of service, yet everything I have tried in the past always ends up feeling super overwhelming, and I end up walking away from it feeling like a HUGE failure. Within a few hours, Pramilda helped me weed through 40 years worth of stuff to get to the root of what was holding me back in life, business and even my relationships. Things I hadn’t figured out in years of therapy and self-help work.”
“It felt like a door opened to a place from where to look at me and my life that made total sense, instead of the mess it had always seemed. I felt, enlightened, comforted, relieved. I am finally visible, no longer hiding and speaking my truth, knowing that it is worth speaking and that people can benefit from it is wildly exciting and so much easier than I thought. I am doing interviews for magazines and also have a call with a publisher about writing a book that is much needed.”